Buying a home is an intense process, especially so for first-timers. I’ve gotten a lot of questions about how to get the ball rolling, so I’ve compiled all of my knowledge here.
Below are the 10 things to do before buying a home. Some of these are common best practices, and others are from my own experiences; the things I wish I’d known before buying my own little gem.
Everyone has a wish list for what they want in a home, whether you are currently looking, in a home already, or still renting and compiling a list of your “must haves” for the future. I’ve been making a list in my head since I was ten, and even though I own a home currently, I still think about what features I’d like to have in the future.
Here’s a chart of what I had on my wish list back when I bought my first home in 2013 and how the home I bought stacked up.
Obviously, if you watch enough house hunters you’ll know that wish lists don’t line up with budgets most of the time, but it is still good to have a rough idea of what you’d like before you aggressively begin to search. A wish list will also help an agent find homes best suited to your needs.
House hunting is exciting. Truly. It is also exhausting. Before you make an appointment to physically see a home, leverage the internet to do a little bit of detective work. See if any photos are available online. Those will go a long way to narrowing down your list.
Then, before you ever make an appointment, do a drive by of the home(s) you’re interested in. Do one drive by during the day time, and then another at night for each house. Neighborhoods can look a lot different during the day, or you may notice a few issues with the home during the drive by that weren’t noted/pictured on the internet listing. This was crucial for me, as I was able to narrow down ten homes off my initial list of 20 just by doing drive-bys.
Best of all this can be done on your own time, so you’re only truly visiting homes with your realtor that you have vetted.
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You should get pre-qualified for a mortgage before you begin seriously shopping (read: touring homes instead of just browsing online) so you know how much home you can afford. Being pre-qualified also lets sellers know you mean business.
Depending upon your status and credit score, you may also qualify for an FHA loan. An FHA loan often enticers buyers with sexy interest rates and lower down payments (FHA loans can get by with as low as 3.5% down!) It’s good to get it if you can, especially as a first-timer who may not have so much cash or liquidity.
Obtain quotes from at least three lenders. It’s not only smart business, but a difference in interest rates could save you thousands of dollars on what is arguably the biggest purchase you’ll ever make. Ask for mortgage broker referrals from friends and family.
Ask your realtor to research comparable properties in your area before you make a bid. Whatever the average selling price of other homes in the area is, try to start a little bit lower in case the seller wants to negotiate (which in 99% of cases, they will. They have financial goals too!)
Try to avoid a “bidding war” at all costs. From my own experience, a bidding war becomes more about emotions than good common sense. I ended up bidding way too much on the home I have now. I won the war, but later had to fight the bank to reduce the price after the inspection turned up a lot of damage.
Sometimes I wonder how much I would have saved had I bid a bit more conservatively. Research, and doing a second tour of the home during a bidding war can help with this.
Generally everyone accepts a few expenditures as part of the home buying process: the down payment, realtor commissions, homeowner’s insurance, and the like.
But there are also lots of other fees that can be associated with buying a home, particularly if you are buying a foreclosed home, getting an FHA loan, or lumping renovation costs in with a mortgage. Here’s an example of fees I paid
I think all told it took me $2100 just to get to closing. This wasn’t paid out at one time, rather over the course of 6 weeks but still….Yikes!
You can use the spreadsheets in my Grow Your Money Tree tool kit to help set a budget and stick to it. You’ll get $5 as a first time home buyer if you use this special link. Yay!
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I mentioned above the need for an appraisal. Since the housing crash of 2008, many banks have tightened their lending terms. They will no longer approve a mortgage on a home if it does not appraise for that value, no matter how much you’re willing to pay for a home, or if the home falls under the amount you’re pre-approved for. This can frustrate many buyers who fall in love with a home, but do not have the cash to cover the difference between the seller’s asking price and the appraisal.
I remember being on pins and needles during the appraisal process for my current home, but thankfully the home (after renovations) appraised for the home value + the upgrades, so I was able to get the money I needed to renovate.
Since you pay an inspector to do a walk-thru of the home and they prepare a written report of the findings, I’ve known many homeowner friends who skipped the inspection. No! Bad! Wrong! Completely wrong.
The inspection is for you. In addition to finding out if anything is wrong with the home, this is your chance to learn where the breaker box is, the water main, and all appropriate shut off valves. Plus, having the potential buyer there guarantees a more thorough inspection.(People behave differently when they’re being watched- it is proven.)
One of my friends who had purchased a home before I did remarked how ridiculous the loan underwriting process is, and how many hoops it seemed they had to jump through before they could close.
That won’t be an issue for me, I arrogantly thought at the time, I’m a hyper organized, type-A personality. I have impeccable records.
And even though, yes, I am organized, it was still a pain in the butt. Here are a few of the “standard” documents you will be asked for during the underwriting process.
And if you have a side hustle, or freelance or work for yourself….
If you are planning to buy a home and don’t know where these are, I suggest you locate them immediately.
I was able to access my files quickly and turn them over to him within a matter of hours (if not minutes) whenever my mortgage broker emailed and asked for them. Not that this sped up the processing of my loan or anything (sorry…still bitter….) but it did save me a lot of hassle and headache because I didn’t have to worry or search for a specific document.
Murphy’s Law: Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.
While I’m saying this a little tongue-in-cheek, I’ve never known anyone who had a 100% smooth home buying process. There are simply too many variables (money, two sets of people, real estate agents, the bank) to ensure it will be absolutely perfect. Using the tips above, doing your homework and not taking short cuts will help ease the process, but try and remember that bumps in the road are expected too.
Buying a home is stressful, but so, so worth it. Stay organized. Stay cool. And when things aren’t going your way, just remember why you wanted to buy a home in the first place.